If the universe has brought you this article, you have probably spent a lot of time thinking about your soulmate lately. You may even be looking for soulmate signs. If you are still searching for spiritual signs that you’ve found the one, you’re not alone. Over half of all adults in the U.S. are single. This number has more than doubled since 1950. But why is that? Do people not believe in love anymore? Not necessarily.
There are tons of reasons why people don’t have a steady romantic partner--these range from troubles with communication to fear of getting hurt. But let’s be honest. Belonging and wanting to be loved are human desires that we all experience. So, it’s not something you should feel bad about.
You should embrace this time of searching to be aware of and recognize signs you’ve met your soulmate. So when it happens, you won’t be clueless.
Here Are 7 Spiritual Signs You Found Your Soulmate
You’ve seen it on TV or in the movies a million times. A man and woman bump into each other on a street corner. Their eyes meet. They feel a spark, and BOOM, they realize they’ve met their soulmate. But does it happen this way? Sometimes it does.
Two of the
best love psychics in the world were brought together this way, with one feeling drawn to travel through a terrible snowstorm to get to the city where the other lived and worked. She didn’t know why she wanted to go to this distant antique store owned by the other, so their meeting felt fated from the beginning, and in true cliche fashion, it happened on Valentine’s Day.
Surprisingly though, even two spiritual gurus missed some of the soulmate signs that the universe threw their way. This caused them to be in a tug-of-war of the heart for over a year. Thankfully, you’ll see the spiritual signs so that you won’t have to!
Your Meeting Feels Fated
Like the spiritual psychics mentioned above, it will probably feel fated when you meet your soulmate. You might run into them repeatedly, have met them in the past, or even realize that you had several ‘near meetings’ once you get closer. This doesn’t happen by chance but is destiny.
The universe has or is currently conspiring to bring you and your soulmate together. It may not happen in the middle of a snowstorm on Valentine’s Day, but it will be unique. How can you help this happen if you’re still waiting? Put it out there (write it down on paper), and release expectations! Instead of trying to force a fairytale meeting, look for synchronicities instead.
There are Lots of Synchronicities
Soulmate signs or spiritual signs are also called synchronicities. The word synchronicity was coined by Carl Jung, one of the most influential psychologists. Synchronicities are meaningful events that seem to be caused by something other than chance and can pop up as random events, spontaneous meetings, numbers, symbols, during conversations, or in dreams.
Like our psychic soulmates who met during the snowstorm, it turns out that they have the same middle name, the same ‘big three’ astrological signs, and of course, the same profession. Even when apart, the two would dream of each other and always feel a magnetic pull, one of the classic soulmate signs.
Want to up your synchronicity game? Jung suggests that you be more aware. Becoming an observer will help you pick up on fated coincidences and other spiritual signs.
They’re in Your Dreams
If you’ve dreamed about your partner before meeting them, this is a tell-tale spiritual sign that points to a soulmate relationship. If you’re still single and want to attract your person, you can ask your spirit guides to bring your soulmate into your dream. This can help you strengthen that connection even when you are apart.
Dream journaling after you wake up is another way to observe dream synchronicities that might otherwise look like silly sleep fantasies. Here are some other symbols to look for in your dreams:
Apples (desire)
Moon (feelings)
Doves (love success)
Heart (romantic love)
Shells (forever love)
Your Values are in Alignment
You may not have everything in common with your soulmate, but your main values will be in alignment. For example, you might both value freedom and creativity. Maybe you express it differently, with one liking to go on daily hikes and create art and the other loving to travel and write, but the underlying appreciations are the same.
Not sure what your values are? Write it out! Your values might include things like:
Authenticity
Being family-oriented
Success
Compassion
You can get inspiration from an online
values list if you’re stuck. This will also help you attract the right partner.
There’s a 4-Way Connection
Soulmate connections have four different aspects: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Breakups usually occur when one of these areas is lacking in some way. For example, a couple might connect in a primal way but struggle with having deeply personal conversations outside of the bedroom.
One of the leading spiritual signs you’ve met your soulmate is that these different ‘tanks’ will be full. Does this mean you won’t ever struggle with communication? Or that you’ll share every spiritual belief? Of course not. But in general, you’ll be able to check each box as fulfilled.
They Serve as a Mirror
When you’re with your soulmate, you’ll grow a lot. This is mainly because our soulmates can serve as a mirror, showing us things that need to be healed. As long as you (and your partner) don’t fall into toxic responses, this can be a great source of growth and support for our souls.
Remember our psychic friends from earlier in the article? One of their early struggles surrounded consistency. One soulmate is very consistent and loves routine. She eats the same thing for breakfast every morning, has a consistent hiking routine, and needs to plan things out ahead of time. On the other hand, her partner is a spontaneous spirit who craves variety and is impulsive by nature.
On the surface, this might look like incompatibility. After all, these are two very different ways of approaching life. But what they found as they pushed through this problem is that each was mirroring something for the other. Ms. Consistency helped Ms. Freespirit realize that routine could help her overcome issues with anxiety. Ms. Freespirit showed Ms. Consistency that it is okay to deviate from the plan sometimes.
Things Aren’t Toxic
A scary trend has developed with the concept of twin flames becoming a thing in the spiritual community. It seems that some people are mistaking toxic connections for genuine soulmate signs.
Although the toxic people in your life are karmic in that they appear in your reality to help you see areas that need to be healed or grow, this is not a forever thing. Soulmate relationships feel:
Natural
Comforting
Deep
Peaceful
Get More Clarity With A Psychic Reading
If you are in a toxic situation that feels like a soulmate connection, you may need to speak with a few great
spiritual psychics specializing in letting go of attachment. The same is true for those who are single and want to attract a soulmate. Want to strengthen your current relationship? A seasoned psychic can help with this too!